How much should I spend on a Mother's Day gift?

Adult children typically spend $50–150 on Mother's Day. Younger children (or where parents are funding the gift) sit at $20–50. The gesture and the specificity matter substantially more than the dollar figure.

The mistake most adult children make is buying mum the same generic Mother's Day item every year — a bouquet, a box of chocolates, a candle. These are fine but forgettable. The gifts that actually land reflect something specific about her: the book she mentioned wanting, the brand she keeps buying, the experience she's been hinting at.

If you have siblings, group gifts unlock a different range. Three siblings at $80 each puts you at $240 — enough for a quality experience (high tea, day spa, restaurant) that none of you could justify alone.

Flowers are a top-up, not a gift. They die in a week. Pair them with something that lasts longer than the bunch.

If your relationship with your mum is complicated or distant, a thoughtful note paired with a modest, considered gift outperforms an expensive showpiece. She'll know.